Pet Loss – A Year Later

One year ago today, November 14th, was one of the most painful days of my life. I had to say goodbye to my Simon kitty love and help him to Heaven. You can read more about that here. Though it's been a year, some days it still feels like it was yesterday. The memories of that day are burned in my brain and my heart forever. Some days the tears will still bubble up out of nowhere and flow when I think of him. What this tells me about my personal experience of the loss of my pet/my fur baby: I loved him so very deeply. There absolutely still are days when I would give anything to have him back. There are days when I question the decision of was it the right time. But I know it's part of the grief process and there is no timeline for grief. Love didn't die with him. It lives on and on inside my heart. Yes, he was a cat, but love is love! Time eventually heals the brunt of the pain, but time doesn't diminish the emotion attached to the [...]

2022-11-03T10:12:58-04:00November 14th, 2014|Bereavement, Loss of Pet, Love|

Don’t Wait To Think About Euthanasia and Cremation

I know NO pet parent wants to think about the day when their beloved fur baby will no longer be with them.I certainly didn't even though we all know it is an unavoidable and inevitable fact of life. But let me tell you that I believe it can take away some of the heavy burdens you will one day face at an extremely sensitive time when you need to be able to deal with your grief and focus on your pet's final moments. Speaking From Experience I speak from personal experience as my baby Simon's loss happened so quickly. That in the depths of my despair (and still being in shock and denial), I had to decide to assist him to sleep and what to do with his beautiful body. Those were some very tough, heartbreaking decisions to make at a time when I already was emotionally devastated. It's hard enough to go through the process of losing your pet, but to try and make such important decisions in the midst of an emotional tidal wave makes it worse. I [...]

2022-11-03T10:12:59-04:00November 26th, 2013|Loss of Pet, Love|

Why It’s Ok To Be Sad For The Loss Of Your Pet

It's that moment in time you never want to happen. But, inevitably, it does. That time came for me about a week ago for my beloved furbaby, Simon. It's one of the toughest things I have been through in quite some time. My love for my pets goes as deep as any love can go in the fibers of my heart. Simon was not just a cat...he was my companion, my lovebug, my baby. Losing him devastated me. I cried a lot, I cried hard, I still cry.  "All that we love deeply becomes a part of us." -Helen Keller I want you to know that it's ok to be sad for the loss of your precious pet, and here's why: They are more than just pets. They are cherished friends, loyal companions, our furry children who love us unconditionally. They are a huge part of our every day life - happy to see us when we come home, enjoying our affection and love, making us smile with their adorable personalities. We have a very special, very personal, unique bond [...]

2022-11-03T10:12:59-04:00November 25th, 2013|Bereavement, Loss of Pet|

Tips on Coping With Pet Loss Grief

As you may know, I recently experienced the loss of my beloved kitty, Simon (Read HERE). It hit me pretty hard as he was such a light in my life and it happened in a short period of time. I did not have a lot of time between the initial shock and the depression "stages" of grief, so it was quite an emotional train wreck. I also felt a little alone and lost in my journey, so I thought by sharing with you some of the things I learned in my own journey of the loss of Simon it would hopefully be helpful to others. Surround Yourself With Those That Understand Not everyone in your social circle will understand your devastation over your pet. But that does not by any means make it wrong. You just need to have your like-minded friends and family surrounding you the closest. I am lucky I have a few friends who really "get" my love for my fur babies. They still may not know exactly what to say, as there isn't a whole lot [...]

2022-11-03T10:12:59-04:00November 25th, 2013|Bereavement, Loss of Pet|
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