Pet Loss – A Year Later
One year ago today, November 14th, was one of the most painful days of my life. I had to say goodbye to my Simon kitty love and help him to Heaven. You can read more about that here. Though it's been a year, some days it still feels like it was yesterday. The memories of that day are burned in my brain and my heart forever. Some days the tears will still bubble up out of nowhere and flow when I think of him. What this tells me about my personal experience of the loss of my pet/my fur baby: I loved him so very deeply. There absolutely still are days when I would give anything to have him back. There are days when I question the decision of was it the right time. But I know it's part of the grief process and there is no timeline for grief. Love didn't die with him. It lives on and on inside my heart. Yes, he was a cat, but love is love! Time eventually heals the brunt of the pain, but time doesn't diminish the emotion attached to the [...]